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Thursday, December 31, 2009

the last day of 2009

8 hours more and tats it for 2009..

time to flash back what i did for the whole 365 days..
a lot new experiences i gained such as:
- internship
- work as part timer
- ..........
- ...................
- .................
2009 is not a special one but is a diff one..
just wanna wish all my friends here
HAPPY NEW YEAR
and this will be my last post for 2009..
come come come..
2010,
im waiting for you..

Monday, December 28, 2009

幾篇寓言


體會情況不同


一隻小豬、一隻綿羊和一頭乳牛,被關在同一個畜欄裡


有一次,牧人捉住小豬,牠大聲號叫,猛烈地抗拒。


綿羊和乳牛討厭牠的號叫,便說:「他常常捉我們,我們並不大呼小叫。」


小豬聽了回答道:「捉你們和捉我完全是兩回事,他捉你們,


只是要你們的毛和乳汁,但是捉住我,卻是要我的命呢!」



立場不同、所處環境不同的人,很難了解對方的感受;

因此對別人的失意、挫折、傷痛,不宜幸災樂禍,

而應要有關懷、了解的心情


幸福就在…


草原上有對獅子母子,小獅子問母獅子:「媽,幸福在哪裡?」


母獅子說:「幸福就在你的尾巴上ㄚ…」


於是,小獅子不斷追著尾巴跑…但始終咬不到。


母獅子笑道:「傻瓜!幸福不是這樣得到的。


只要你昂首向前走,幸福就會一直跟隨著你!」


靠自己


小蝸牛問媽媽:為什麼我們從生下來,就要背負這個又硬又重的殼呢?


媽媽:因為我們的身體沒有骨骼的支撐,只能爬,又爬不快。
所以要這個殼的保護


小蝸牛:毛蟲姊姊沒有骨頭,也爬不快,為什麼她卻不用背這個又硬又重
的殼呢?


媽媽:因為毛蟲姊姊能變成蝴蝶,天空會保護她啊。


小蝸牛:可是蚯蚓弟弟也沒骨頭爬不快,也不會變成蝴蝶他什麼不背這個
又硬又重的殼呢

媽媽:因為蚯蚓弟弟會鑽土,大地會保護他啊。

小蝸牛哭了起來:我們好可憐,天空不保護,大地也不保護。


蝸牛媽媽安慰他:「所以我們有殼啊!我們不靠天,也不靠地,
我們靠自己
。」

Thursday, December 24, 2009

冷笑话

1。 从前有个人钓鱼,钓到了只鱿鱼。
鱿鱼求他:你放了我吧,别把我烤来吃啊。
那个人说:好的,那么我来考问你几个问题吧。
鱿鱼很开心说:你考吧你考吧!
然后这人就把鱿鱼给烤了..

2。 小明理了头发,第二天来到学校,同学们看到他的新发型,笑道:小明,你的头型好像个风筝哦!小明觉得很委屈,就跑到外面哭。哭着哭着~他就飞起来了…………

3。 主持人问:猫是否会爬树?老鹰抢答:会!主持人:举例说明!老鹰含泪:那年,我睡熟了,猫爬上了树…后来就有了猫头鹰…

4。 一天,小美和她男友开车出去兜风,
车快没油了,刚好旁边有个加油站,开过去的时候,突然一阵狂风把她男友的帽子刮跑了。
小美的男友对她说:
「我去捡帽子,你帮我加油。」
男友刚跑开不远,就听到小美在他后面大喊:
「加油!加油!」

5。 一男子入厕,刚把门关上,就听隔壁问:你来了?他说:是啊.可心里想,这隔壁是谁啊?我认识他吗?奇怪!这时隔壁又问:你来干吗啊?他很生气的说:拉屎啊!来这能干吗?!隔壁又问,那你什么时候走啊?他想:这人估计是有神经病!他懊恼的说:拉完就走!!这时隔壁又问:那一会你来我这里一下吧,好吗?此人心里一惊:CAO!原来是同性恋!他大骂道:你TMD去死吧,变态!隔壁又说:恩,先挂了吧,一会再给你打过去,我旁边来了个傻B!老TMD跟我接话茬!!

6。 一女走夜路,突然看到一男张开双臂向她走来,做拥抱状,上前就是一脚.男子倒地大哭,说:都第三块了,我招谁惹谁了,带块玻璃回家就这么难么?

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

代号1026的男子

(一)

  她在山穷水尽时收到了银行的巨额催款单,那个负心的男人,不仅卷走了她的所有存款,甚至还透支光了她的三张信用卡。她在大学图书馆工作,每个月仅仅得两千块薪水,若要还完所有的欠款,至少得三年。

  没有人能帮助她,身边的朋友都是普通职员,赚的钱仅仅够生活而已,她觉得这件事应该可以通过法律来解决,便跑去网上搜索相关条文,于是找到了这个律师网站。

  网站是一些热心律师建立的,轮流在线,义务帮网友解答一些法律问题。她遇到的是1026号,资料一片空白,只写着性别是男。

  1026耐心地听她说了事情的始末,讲述的过程中,她几次对着电脑流下泪来。也许察觉到了她悲伤心情,1026的语气里不露痕迹地夹杂了些许安慰,她渐渐平静,详细说了那个男人所做的一切。

  末了,1025问她,想要男人坐牢,还是仅仅想追回钱?她想了一会,回答,把钱拿回来就行了。1026沉默了一会说,你真是个善良女人。她手一抖,好像是被人看穿了弱点。以前那个男人也说过她善良,于是他狠心地把她伤了个体无完肤后消失了,反正她善良。

  但是这有什么办法呢,善良这回事就和骑自行车一样,一旦会了,这辈子就再也难以忘记。

  (二)

  1026帮她联系了律师茹,一个细眉细眼的女人,已是中年,目光锐利,最擅长帮助受欺负的女人打官司。没多久,官司打赢了,男人如数还了她钱,恶狠狠地朝她说,三八,居然找律师,真是恶毒。

  本来她还对此有点愧疚,听到男人这么说,瞬间释怀。心情轻松地和茹说,走,请你吃火锅。

  饭桌上,她向茹打听1026的事,茹说她不清楚,只是同在一个论坛的网友而已,仅仅知道1026为人很热心,通常都会和前来咨询的网友成为很好的朋友。得知自己只是1026众多网友中的一个,她隐隐失落。那天她和茹都喝了不少酒,席间茹隐约地说起了自己的家事,花心成性的老公,久病孱弱的儿子,虽然帮很多女人打赢过官司,却独独帮不了自己。

  回去后上网,她和1026说了官司打赢的事,也说到了茹。1026对茹的评价很高,说茹是个及其有责任心的律师,很会替别人着想。她问,那你呢,你也是律师么?1026说,不是,还在学习中。

  以后的日子,她对来图书室借阅法律图书的学生格外关注,遇到面色温和的男孩子,她就会想,1026的模样是不是也这样让人感到温暖呢?想得多了,她被自己吓了一跳。身处风花雪月的大学校园,见过各式各样的恋情,自己也经历了一些,虽然伤痕累累,毕竟是真真切切的,但不知道什么时候,自己居然对1026莫名地产生了依恋。他的年龄、籍贯、职业、家庭状况等等,她一无所知,只是隐约地猜测他是一个在学法律的男孩子。也许他已老态龙钟,也许根本是个女人。对一个陌生的代号产生这样不切实际的感情,让她觉得自己很滑稽。

  (三)

  南的出现是她始料不及的,他是她少女时代的偶像。她读大学时,南被邀请来她的大学做演讲,她献的花。南是赫赫有名的企业家,有着一流的气质和修养,她把花递到他手上时,感觉自己卑微成了一粒尘土。

  现在她又见到了南,他来她工作的大学做演讲,恰好又是她负责献花。几年不见,他还是那么风度翩翩,岁月都畏惧他,迟迟不肯在他脸上留下痕迹。她心跳得厉害,紧张得手都在发抖,好像回到了初见南的少女时代。

  让她惊喜的是,南还记得她,演讲过后,他请她吃饭,她没有拒绝的勇气。南夸她漂亮了,女人的韵味都长出来了,她羞涩地低着头,呼吸急促。

  久经沙场的男人必定也久经情场,南一眼就看出了她的心旌荡漾。他朝她发出暧昧的信号,邀请她吃完饭后再去酒吧坐一坐,她以为自己会欣然答应,但是毫无预兆地就想起了1026,她怕1026会讨厌自己的轻浮,尽管这只是她的一厢情愿。

  她的拒绝让南有些意外,南微微皱起了眉头,似乎有点埋怨她的不识抬举。她抢着买了单,匆匆离去。

  (四)

  网上,她苦苦哀求1026,我们见面吧。1026问,为什么?她傻了眼,不知道该讲出一个怎样的理由。她怎么敢告诉电脑对面的他,他一点无心的小温柔,竟让她不能自已。

  接下来是拉锯战,她冲动地攻完一步,又理智地退后一步,耗上了所有的心思。1026渐渐明了了她的心,没有回应她,只是越躲越远,她有点绝望了。

  南又联系到她,习惯了女人的百依百顺,偶尔遇到不屈服的她,成了他的不甘心。她又推辞了几次,终于在1026对她彻底不理不睬后,她答应了南的邀请。没多久,她和南在宾馆开了房,一夜春宵,她失望地发现,自己曾经深深迷恋的这个男人,竟然有了肚腩,虽然他的脸庞依旧神采奕奕,但肉已松弛,毕竟是个老人了。

  一个月后,她有了身孕,她心惊胆战,明明采取了安全措施,怎么还是会怀上了孩子呢?她问南,南说他故意的,他有很多钱,所以也想养很多孩子。只要她肯生下孩子,南会送给她车子房子,让孩子读名牌学校,保证她一生衣食无忧。

  她动心了。她本是个接近平庸的女人,飞黄腾达的机会,今生也许只有这一次。她去网上找1026,希望他能拦住自己,1026一连几天不在线,他失踪了。她留了一封邮件给他,告诉他自己要去给有钱人当情妇了,邮件发送完毕后,她写好了辞职信,收拾好了行李,搬进了南给她准备的新居。

  新居里的东西一应俱全,只是没有网络,南担心电脑辐射会影响胎儿,不许她上网。她想这样也好。可以慢慢忘记1026,对1026的感情实在是太荒谬了。

  10月的时候,她在新居里已经待了三个多月,26日,她头一次对南提出要求,请他晚上陪陪她,南下午到她这里只待了一会便匆匆走了,说晚上有重要的事,明天再来陪她。

  10月26日,1026。她果然还是无法忘记这个数字,回忆不多,却一直沉淀到了灵魂最深处。

  晚上,她用南留下的笔记本电脑上网,进到邮箱,惊喜地发现了1026的回复邮件,三个月前发的。

  邮件里,1026第一次提到自己的事情,他说自己是个私生子,妈妈在很年轻的时候就给一个男人当了情妇,那个男人很有出息,给了他们很多钱,他受最好的教育,买最新的电玩,生活里最大的感触就是,有钱。

  起初他以为自己很幸福,慢慢觉得只是有钱的生活很空虚,再后来他得知他叫爸爸的那个男人,在外面有一堆别的女人和孩子,他这才知道自己有多悲哀。妈妈是律师,个性好胜,不肯为自己当初的选择后悔,受妈妈影响,他也开始学习法律,希望将来能多帮助些人。

  他的妈妈就是茹,他隐名去了妈妈经常去的论坛,取名为1026,默默地支持妈妈,1026的由来是因为10月26日是自己的生日,只有这一天,爸爸会舍下所有的事来陪他们母子两人。

  最后,他只说了两个字:珍重。

  (五)

  她打掉了孩子,南又急又气,不停地惋惜。离开南的时候,她没有拿那笔庞大的钱,她问南:10月26日是什么日子?

  南随口回答,我儿子的生日。

  她笑着离开了。

  她去公园坐了摩天轮,十七分钟绕一圈,能鸟瞰城市里大部分景色。以前她不懂摩天轮的意义,缓慢又无聊,远远不如过山车刺激,但是现在,她觉得感动。短短十七分钟,她心里想着那个叫1026的男孩子,慢慢地,慢慢地,跨过了城市的天空。

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

training....

it has been long long time since i went back to my old school for training.. and last friday i went back with a few friends which ald left school.. me myself ald left sch for 5 years.. wow.. i cant imagine 5 years has just past like tat.. went back to sch for training is just like a gathering for us.. ( or it is a keep fit activity for all of us since after we left sch all have gained weight.. ) tis time i met a friend which i never see her for 5 years.. but she still looks the same as before.. we gosip alot bout the sch and the environment is very different compare to last time..


during year end 2 months sch holiday, what u will do? go for holiday? stay at home doing the things that u cant do during sch time like watch tv, on9, play games and etc? but for us who is a member of ave maria convent (amc) netball team, holiday is not an option for us.. coz we have to attend training everyday.. 8am til 12pm.. can u imagine, when u r having holiday but u just cant wake up late? omg.. its like hell for me.. but dunno y i managed to get over it.. haha..

training started with a pysical training.. which require to do some tiring stamina stuff.. and last friday they did a cone jumping.. ( duno wat exactly its call ) at least 15 sets each person.. its tiring.. i manage to jump 2 times tat time.. omg.. i wonder how i did it last time n now stil alive.. haha.. oh ya.. before that, running is a must.. i think 10 sets for that if im not mistaken.. and yet i managed to run 3 sets ni.. after doing all this, my heart going to jump out and my legs going to patah d.. tiring tiring tiring.. salute the juniors who going tru all this and to me myself since i managed to run out from hell without any major injury..

after that, went breakfast with my teacher which is our netball team's coach.. a teacher that hates by most of the netball players but respect n thankful by the ex netball players.. i tink the netball players will understand what i mean by this.. during breakfast session, gosip alot bout the current sch management team.. its not as simple as last time.. and i glad that i had left the sch 5 years ago.. hehe..

last session of the training.. play full court.. this was where the seniors will play against the juniors or the exseniors will play against the seniors.. for exseniors, this is the fun part.. coz we can just play whatever we want.. in a serious or naughty mood.. but normally will be a crazy mode.. all will laugh over some small minor funny things.. but yet its is fun.. hehe.. but for the current players, they can only be in serious mode all the time.. if not AK16 will shoot them off.. i tink use AK 16 to describe it is not over at all.. coz the coach scold ppl is not as simple as u tink.. many of the players cried bcoz of her scolding.. haha.. i guess thats the part where make us stronger through out the years of practice..

i always tink that after u join amc netball team, u will no longer a simple and ordinary person.. u had some experiences that others cant get it.. but yet, to go over the 5 years hell training there is not easy also.. if not amc netball team will not be that strong.. (im not promoting amc netball team here k?? just a sharing.. haha.. ) the performance of the team has declining over this few years but i know that all of them ald did their best.. gambateh.. u can do it if we can do it..

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

改变

曾经

有多么的讨厌改变

改变

就只有好与坏之差

世界每天日新月异

你还能逗留在你想要的那个时代吗?

有些事无论你是多么想维持现状

可是却发现

是不可能的

曾试在身边寻找一些不会改变的东西

除了有血缘关系的

无论是感觉或物体

抽想与否

都一直无法定位

好与坏

是没有一定的定义的

有人说

爱人和朋友只是一线之差

而在这两者之间的灰色地带

应该就是所谓的暧昧吧

暧昧

可以进化成情人或敌人

我相信没有任何人

可以维持一段暧昧关系到永远

用暧昧这关系

不断的付出

而不计较是什么身份

你可能觉得是伟大

或者就叫爱

可是有想过有可能也是愚蠢吗?

爱人先爱己

很老土的一句话

可是有谁不赞成

没有一辈子一样分量的爱

只有越来越爱

或是越来越看得清楚什么叫爱

爱的定义是什么

没有一定的答案

人要活得痛痛快快

不要顾虑别人的感受

自己开心是最重要

那问问你自己

当全世界唯独你一个人

为你自己的所作所为感到开心

而其余的都不开心

那你那时会是什么心情

改变不容易

但只要踏出第一步

一切都变得不难了

Thursday, December 3, 2009

my msn is back in action..

again, im announce that my old account - summy1987@hotmail.com is back in action again.. so u all can just ignore my new msn.. sorry for any inconvenient.. if u deleted my old one then just add it back.. thankz..

Friday, November 27, 2009

problems here and there.. SOS..

Few days ago my house's LCD monitor ACER, fried..

ACER had been part of our family since 5 years ago..
Its time for it to retire and LG will take it's job..
The next day,
Me and my dad went to Yik Foong (consider Ipoh's low yat) to survey for a new LCD monitor..
After 1.5 hours walking here and there,
We make our mind to bring LG model W1943s home..
18.5 inch cost my dad rm385..
I think its good enough for a normal usage..
In the same time,
My uncle asked me to help him buy a webcam..
Why my uncle so hightech?
He started to touch computer, on9, sign up msn account, webcam now..
He miss his son who now studying in kuching..
He wanted to see his son is getting
fatter?
slimmer?
darker? (as usual)
more handsome? (i doubt)
In conclusion,
All because he miss his son..
I know nothing about webcam,
So i just simply buy one..
Genius iSlim 320 for rm69..
I'm not sure worth it or not.. (hehe..)
Since my cousin not here,
So i have to help him to install it on his PC..
i thought it will be very easy..
Just plug in and play..
But something went wrong..
I can use in my house's PC and my own laptop
But cannot use in his laptop..
Where go wrong?
I dunno..
With asking around and try and error..
2day finally i managed to install it successfully...
*clap*
But after settle one problem..
Another 2 problem pop out..
My PPS tv cannot use..
Try and error again..
Managed to solve it..
*clap again"
LAST but Not least.. ( I hope so)
my MSN account..
cant log in..
Guess someone hacked in my account..
Change the password will solve the problem..
BUT..
I forgot about the secure answer..
Try and error now again..
Hope i really can figure out the answer correctly..
WHERE IS MY MUM BIRTHPLACE???????
Capital letter or not will influence the answer??
Anyone can tell me this?
Or anyone know any others way to save my account..
I will appreciate a lot for the help..
Pray hard God will Guide me through out this..
Oh ya,
my holiday going to finish in 2 days time..
Time to start my last sem of my degree..
Last 4 months to go..
I will do my best so that i can convert the PTPTN loan to scholarship..

till then..

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

101109

2day is a special day for me..
365 days..
it seems long but with you beside me..
it doesn't matter..
and i hope for more and more 365 days to go..
although there were not fully 365 days happiness..
but..
sadness are no longer visit me that often..
sometimes i am emo..
sometimes i am childish..
sometimes i am serious..
sometimes i am silly..
no matter how i act..
u will never give me a sour face..
your smile always touches my heart..
you are kind of blur..
you are kind of careless..
you are kind of poor in direction..
you are patience..
you are good temper..
this is who you are..
the one that always beside me..
due to my busy schedule of training..
its hard for us to have a great celebration..
but as long as we spend time together..
i still feel it is sweet and happy..
my words are not good in describing my feeling..
but just wanna tell you that..
i actually care you more than i showed..
I.L.O.V.E.Y.O.U

Sunday, October 25, 2009

how u make a wise decision?


A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused.
Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange.
You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids.
However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed.
Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make........ ........



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Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.
You might think the same way, I guess.
Exactly, to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision
most people would make, morally and emotionally.
But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact
made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday.
In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society,
the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority,
no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are.
The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined.
And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.


The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train
because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use,
and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens..
If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track!
Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe.
If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake!
And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made,
we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.


'Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right.'

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.

Friday, October 23, 2009

just wanna share it..

烛光晚餐。桌两边,坐了男人和女人。

  “我喜欢你。”女人一边摆弄着手里的酒杯,一边淡淡地说着。

  “我有老婆。”男人摸着自己手上的戒指。

  “我不在乎,我只想知道,你的感觉。你,喜欢我吗?”

  男人抬起头,打量着对面的女人。

  24岁,年轻,有朝气,相当不错的年纪。

  白皙的皮肤,充满活力的身体,一双明亮的,会说话的眼睛。

  真是不错的女孩啊,可惜。

  “如果你也喜欢我,我不介意作你的情人。”女人终于等不下去,追加了一句。

  “我爱我妻子。”男人坚定地回答。

  “你爱她?爱她什么?现在的她,应该已经年老色衰,见不得人了吧。否则,公司的晚宴,

怎么从来不见你带她来……”

  女人还想继续,可接触到男人冷冷的目光后,打消了念头。

  静……

  “你喜欢我什么?”男人开口了。

  “成熟,稳重,动作举止很有男人味,懂得关心人,很多很多。反正,和我之前见过的人不 同,你很特别。


  “你知道三年前的我什么样子?”男人点了颗烟。

  “不知道。我不在乎,即使你坐过牢。”

  “三年前,我就是你现在眼里的那些普通男人。”男人没理会女人,继续说。

  “普通大学毕业,工作不顺心,整天喝酒,发脾气。对女孩子爱理不理,还因为去夜总会找 小姐,被police抓过。”

  “那怎么……”女人有了兴趣,想知道是什么让男人转变的。

  “因为她?”

  “嗯。”

  “她那个人,好像总能看到事情的内在。教我很多东西,让我别太计较得失,别太在乎眼前

的事,尽量待人和善。那时的我在她面前,就像少不更事的孩子。那时真的很奇怪,倔脾气的我

,偏偏最听她的话。按照她说的,接受现实,我知道自己没用,就努力工作。那年年底,工作上 稍微有了起色,我们结婚了。”

  男人弹了弹烟灰,继续说着。

  “那时,真是苦日子。两个人,一张床,家里的家具也少得可怜。知道吗?结婚一年后,我

才给她买了第一枚钻戒,存了大半年的钱呢。当然,是背着她存的。若她知道了,是肯定不让的

。”

  “那阵子,因为烟酒弄得自己身体不好。大冬天的,她每天晚上睡前还要给我熬汤喝。那味 道,也只有她做得出。”

  男人沉醉于回忆里,忘记了时间,只是不停地讲述着往事。

  而女人,也丝毫没有打断的意思,静静地听着。

  等男人注意到时间,已经晚上10点了。

  “啊,对不起,没注意时间,已经这么晚了。”男人抱歉地笑了笑。

  “现在,你可以理解嘛?我不可能,也不会,做对不起她的事。”

  “啊,知道了。输给这样子的人,心服口服了!”女人无奈地摇了摇头。“不过我到了她的 年纪,会更棒的。”

  “嗯。那就可以找到更好的男人。不是吗?”

  “很晚了,家里的汤要冷了,我送你回去。”男人站起身,想送女人。

  “不了,我自己回去可以了。”女人摆了摆手。“回去吧,别让她等急了。”

  男人会心地笑了笑,转身要走。

  “她漂亮嘛?”

  “……嗯,很美。”

  男人的身影消失在夜色中,留下女人,对着蜡烛,发呆。

  男人回到家,推开门,径直走进卧室,打开了台灯。

  沿着床边,他坐了下来。

  “老婆,已经第四个了。干嘛让我变得这么好,好多人喜欢我呀。搞不好,我会变心呀。干 吗把我变得这么好,自己却先走了?我,我一个人,好孤单呀……”

  男人哽咽地说着,终于泣不成声。

  眼泪,一滴滴从男人的脸颊流下,打在手心里的相框上。昏暗的灯光中,旧照片里弥漫着的是已逝女子淡淡的温柔。

Saturday, October 17, 2009

沒有永遠對的價值觀

朋友手拿一份報紙,說讓我做一個小小的測驗,我欣然同意了。

問題一:如果你知道有一個女人懷孕了,她已經生了八個小孩,其中有三個耳朵聾、兩個眼睛瞎、一個智能不足,

而這女人自己又有梅毒,請問,你會建議她墮胎嗎?

我剛要回答,朋友制止了我,又問我第二個問題。

問題二:現在要選舉一名領袖,而你這一票很關鍵。

下面是關於這三位候選人的一些事實:

候選人A
跟一些不誠實的政客有往來,而且會咨詢占星學家。他有婚外情,是一個老煙槍,每天喝8─10杯的馬丁尼。

候選人B

他過去有兩次被解雇的記錄,睡覺睡到中午才起來,大學時吸過鴉片,而且每天傍晚會喝一夸特的威士忌。

候選人C
他是一位受勛的戰爭英雄,素食主義者,不抽煙,只偶爾喝一點啤酒。從沒有發生過婚外情。

請問你會在這些候選人中選哪一個?
朋友讓我把答案寫在紙上,然後告訴我說:

候選人A是:富蘭克林羅斯福,
候選人B是:溫斯頓邱吉爾,
候選人C是:亞道夫希特勒。

我聽了答案驚訝地張大了嘴巴。朋友表情凝重地問我:
你是不是為世界人民選擇了希特勒?那你會建議這位婦女墮胎嗎?

我說:這個問題不用考慮,我們受計劃生育優生優育教育多年了,都生那麼多歪瓜劣棗了,就別再添亂了。當然墮胎啊。

朋友說:你殺了貝多芬,她是貝多芬的母親。
我又一次吃驚地張大了嘴巴。
朋友說:嚇一跳吧?本來你認為很好很人道主義的答案,結果卻扼殺了貝多芬、創造了希特勒?

最後朋友總結道:所以不要用既定的價值觀來思考事物

我抓過朋友手中的報紙,原來真是一個測驗題,題目是《你的決定滅了誰》。
重要的是,不是我們在哪,而是我們要往哪走......
如果你知道往哪走,并且相信自己,世界會為你開出一條路........

boring night

feels real bored now..


study is what should i do now

since 1 week later is my final exam ald..

i have been studying for this few days,

progress was not too bad

but in this particular moment

i feel damn damn damn boring

y my life can only stuck in this stupid boring room??

am i gonna spend my weekend just like that??

what else can i do??

my stupid laptop has mood swing

so i have to use it carefully

no gaming,

no drama,

no youtube..

= no life..

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!



Sunday, October 11, 2009

double 10

A special day for both of us

no special plan for this day

but just a special person beside

365 days ago

we had dinner as friend

365 days later

we had dinner as couple

it still the same person in front of me

the only different

is the love that holding us now

day after day

months after months

i have you by my side for 11 months

whenever problems occur

i will turn to you

you will help me no matter what

i glad that

i have your shoulder to lie on

i have your hand to hold on

and your love to make me feel that im in love

thankz dear

Thursday, October 8, 2009

IFeel Girl Search 2009


Lau Kuan Yee, contestant no.10.
She is chosen as the Top 12 Finalist for iFeel Girl Search 2009.
To vote for her, simply type IGS 10 and send it to 32888. Starting from 1/10/09 - 31/10/09.
For multiple votes,
1 vote : IGS 10
3 votes : IGS3 10
5 votes : IGS5 10
10 votes : IGS10 10 (RM0.50 for each vote)

Vote for her, I plead!
I really want her to win, and she definitely deserves to win!
She is really pretty, and she has a heart of an angel.
She is my best friend too!
Therefore, hesitate no more and vote for her! Please. (=

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

mooncake festival

Has been busy since i came back from raya break. but still i managed to go back ipoh during mooncake festival.. i think for our age, candles and tanglong are no longer in our playlist.. but last friday when i just reached ipoh, i went to my aunty's place.. when i reached the house, my 4 cousins were playing candles and tanglong there.. they were so excited when holding a tanglong on their hand.. they saw me and asked me to join them.. my mum went down took something from my aunt and we went off.. i asked my mum: 'y they so excited playing tanglong and candles?" my mum answered: 'you all used to be like that.. that time you all play until dun wan to stop..' ya.. she was right.. mooncake festival used to be day that im looking forward alot.. the children will play tanglong (or burn the tanglong??) and play with the candles while the adult will sit aside and chit chat. for me, masak masak was the most exciting part. masak the grass with the candles on a milo cover. mayb always see our mum cook thats y feel like trying it although we knew its not real. playing with fire was really fun.. haha.. but all this just can keep in my memory book. all of us are stepping nearer and nearer to the adult stage. this kind of fun is hard to get ald. but i still cherish the memories that accompany me grow up.


* since long time din update any blog, just spare some time out for this short blog. time to move on with my next agenda.. study for PCI test which is on this thurs.. gambateh partial sum and everyone out there..*

Friday, September 25, 2009

cameron

last Saturday i went to cameron with my family.. the weather there was damn nice.. missed the time i spent there.. but basically this trip was actually a hiking trip for my parents and also their hiking gang.. for your info, my parents joined a hiking team few months ago and they are quite active in this kind of hiking activities.. their age are average 40 years old.. so i kind of salute them in what they did.. cameron hill is not very high but the weather there can be a challenge to all of them.. but they make it.. 10 hours journey.. really think they are hero.. haha.. for more info, plz visit http://www.orin-z.blogspot.com/.. this is their official blog..

Saturday, September 12, 2009

快乐的钥匙

  每个人心中都有把“快乐的钥匙”,但我们却常在不知不觉中把它交给别人掌管.

  一位女士抱怨道:“我活得很不快乐,因为先生常出差不在家.”她把快乐的钥匙放在先生手里.

  一位妈妈说:“我的孩子不听话,叫我很生气!”她把钥匙交在孩子手中.

  男人说:“上司不赏识我,所以我情绪低落!”这把快乐的钥匙被塞在老板手里.

  婆婆说:“我的媳妇不孝顺,我真命苦!”

  年轻人从文具店里走来说:“那位老板服务态度恶劣,把我气炸了!”

  这些人都做了相同的决定,就是让别人来控制他的心情

  一位知名作家和朋友在报摊上买报纸,那朋友礼貌的对报贩说了声“谢谢”但报贩却冷言冷脸,没发一言.

  “这家伙态度很差,是不是?”他们继续前行时,作家问道.“他每天晚上都是这样的.”朋友说.

  “那你为什么还是对他那么客气?”作家问他.

  朋友答道:“为什么我要让他决定我的行为?”

  一个成熟的人握住自己快乐的钥匙,他不期待别人使他快乐,反而能将快乐与幸福带给别人.

Friday, September 11, 2009

一些文字,很短很无奈!

一些文字,很短很无奈!

等待你的关心,等到我关上了心。

走完同一条街,回到两个世界。

想你的时候有些幸福,幸福得有些难过

你是我猜不到的不知所措,我是你想不到的无关痛痒。

所谓最难忘的,就是从来不曾想起,却永远也不会忘记。

谁把谁真的当真,谁为谁心疼。

多谢你的绝情,让我学会死心。

眼泪流下来,才知道,分开也是另一种明白。

我真的爱你,闭上眼,以为我能忘记,但流下的眼泪,却没有骗到自己。

有时,爱也是种伤害。残忍的人,选择伤害别人,善良的人,选择伤害自己。

人生遗憾的,莫过于,轻易地放弃了不该放弃的,固执地,坚持了不该坚持的。

脸上的快乐,别人看得到。心里的痛又有谁能感觉到。

不要轻易说爱,许下的承诺就是欠下的债!

不是不死心是死不了心。

痛过之后就不会觉得痛了,有的只会是一颗冷漠的心。

真心离伤心最近。

我想哭,可是我已经不知道该怎么流泪了。

在原谅与绝望之间游荡,唯一的感觉是伤伤伤!

思念一个人的滋味,就象是喝了一杯冰冷的水,然后一滴一滴凝成热泪。

喜欢一个人没有错,错就错在喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人。

无法拒绝的是开始,无法抗拒的是结束。

等待……也许并不容易;伤害……却轻而易举。

人生若只如初见,当时只道是寻常。